October 25, 2010

Before You Book The Venue

Ceremony Questions
  • ceremony fees?
  • any required vendors? - (flowers? music?)
  • chairs included?
  • microphone, PA system, podium included? 
  • aisle runner included?
  • sparkling water/wine at arrival included?
  • parking permits for guests and vendors included? how many? how do we obtain and distribute?
  • what time can deliveries arrive day of? (flowers, cake, favors, etc)
  • rain plan? when will this call be made? (one hour before? morning of?)
  • other weddings taking place the same day?
  • when can rehearsal take place? is there a fee?

Reception Questions
  • price per head?
  • any guest minimum requirement?
  • any maximum capacity?
  • tax and gratuity fees? 
  • necessary to tip staff after gratuities above?
  • price include all waitstaff, maitre de, bartenders, coat check, bathroom attandants, security?
  • price include day-of wedding coordinator? (if they don't include one, definitely hire one or have a super awesome aunt!)
  • any required vendors? (catering? flowers? music? tent? chairs?)
  • what is their vendor minimum insurance requirement?
  • how large of a band can comfortably play in reception space? (8-piece? 10-piece?)
  • tables and chairs included?
  • votive candles included for each table?
  • dance floor included?
  • linens included? what color choices available?
  • any noise ordinances? (end reception at specific time due to music)
  • price for extending the reception? based on price per head or % of event total?
  • does meal include dessert?
  • cake cutting fees?
  • how many entree options?
  • do you need to know entree choices in advance? (ie: do you have to include in your invitation RSVP design)
  • cost of vendor meals? (band/DJ, photo, video)
  • are vendor meals hot or cold? (some vendors require hot meals in their contract)
  • cost of gluten-free, vegetarian, vegan, child meals?
  • how many hors d'oeuvres and/or stations included in cocktail hour? hot or cold?
  • additional fees to pass out favors?
  • can waitstaff refill cookie bar or do you need to assign that job to friends?
  • additional fees for photobooth? space for photobooth?
  • other receptions taking place same day and/or same time?
  • when is the food tasting? how many people can attend?
  • what size tables work best for your guest numbers - 8-rounds? 10-rounds? 12-rounds?
  • what table arrangement works best for bride and groom? (sweetheart table? wedding party round table? wedding party long table?)
  • if we label dinner tables with names instead of numbers, does waitstaff also need a number on the signs? 
  • when is seating chart due to venue? (back time RSVP deadline)
  • do escort cards need to be delivered alphabetized?
  • any regulations on bride & groom exit (many venues wouldn't allow sparklers, rice, bubbles, etc)

October 20, 2010

Wedding Websites

You don't want to put this part of planning off. It's the go-to directory for your guests for all things wedding. It's your ceremony start time, your hotel room block, your reception location, your activities and events, your wedding party bios and let's not forget your registry!

Personally, I loved designing our wedsite. Invitations tend to be so proper and polite. This is the place to cut loose and have some fun!

Here are some favorites to consider:



October 12, 2010

Bridal Lingo

As I began my wedding planning by scouring the Internet for the best blogs, sites, stores and bridal boards, I came across many acronyms that I hadn't before seen. And worse, acronyms I had seen that now hold a very different connotation. I present to you: STD.

We all suffered through sex-education classes and know the precautions to preventing sexually transmitted diseases. So why did I find myself skimming post after post of busy brides enamored by the arrival of their very own STDs?? Turns out, there's a whole other language that I wasn't aware of. And if I was going to understand and communicate with my fellow fiancee friends, I needed to quickly get up to speed on what these brides were sharing.

STD: Save The Date
FI: Fiance
FH: Future Husband
FW: Future Wife
MOH: Maid of Honor
BM: Bridesmaid
GM: Groomsman
FG: Flower Girl
RB: Ring Bearer
MOB: Mother of the Bride
FOB: Father of the Bride
MIL: Mother in Law
FIL: Father in Law
DW: Destination Wedding
RD: Rehearsal Dinner
OOTG: Out Of Town Guest
HM: Honeymoon
NWR: Not Wedding Related